I heard once that our bodies are the warehouses for our individual stories. This resonates as truth to me. Our physical scars or “abnormalities” reveal the rough and tumble existence we’ve experienced along the way. While our emotional scars dictate how we perceive the world.

Two years ago, I decided to give my emotional scars a physical representation on my body in the form of a Phoenix tattoo. Having survived abandonment, abuse, and financial ruin as a result of a painful divorce and legal process that led to the loss of what matters most to my heart. It felt only suitable to honor the beginning of my rise from the ashes in this way.

My journey has brought me to my knees, but also caused me to discover who I really am. A blessing that outweighs the pain.

To speak towards my rising from the ashes, one major learning curve was my discovering that I am in fact, beautiful. That the emotional scars I’ll carry with me only make me more powerful, loving, and whole.

“That these scars have much to teach and empower others to embody who they are. Even if it means going through many dark nights of the soul.”

Today, and the reason for my wanting to work with Kristen, is to celebrate my past, present, and future. Revealing one’s body means complete vulnerability to me. Something I’ve been uncomfortable with all my life.

In working with Kristen, it was symbolic of my overcoming a hurdle and coming into true life and acceptance for all that has passed. Kind of like giving fear the middle finger!

Only days ago, I saw the results of my session with Kristen and was blown away…brought to tears, in all honesty. Seeing who I physically was both humbling and thrilling. It was an honor to work with such a talented and loving woman. I can’t emphasize enough the amount of gratitude I have for her and this experience!

Our circumstance are only circumstances. They don’t dictate who you are – so ladies, own your beauty and radiance often and freely! That is my only wish for each of you!